如此幼稚园校医,我该怎么办?

问题:

我和我爱人白天要上班,小孩由两个月开始就由奶奶带,可能平时奶奶少跟他说话,又因他经常尖叫,到楼下玩时都不让他和其他小朋友玩,怕他吓着别人.到两岁了还不太会说话,只会叫"爸爸""妈妈""奶奶"……,所以在满了两岁后就送去幼稚园,想让他多接触小朋友,快点多说一点话.一个多月过去了,没有多大的改变,就接到了幼稚园校医的"建议",她说她通过平时对我小孩的观察及给我所填的所谓的调查表,觉得我小孩可能得了孤独症,建议我到医院检查一下,给了两间医院的名称,说这是这方面权威的医院.我们听到校医这样讲很担心,第二天就带去其中的一间做检查,做了相关的血\耳\脑电波等的检查后,医生说没有问题,开了一堆保健品回来,花了一仟多块.然后过了几天,校医问我去检查过了没有,我说查过了没事,她问我,你去了哪家检查啊?我说去了的那一家医院名称,她又问,你检查什么啦?我说我告诉医生小孩的情况,然后医生要我去检查一大堆,检查结果:没事!她又说:啊!你去的那一家啊,不够另一家好的啊,你应该去另一家,看那个心理咨询,或者你再去另一家看一下吧!我呢,那个纳闷啊,小孩才两岁二个月,而且又不太会说话,怎去做心理咨询啊?而且什么这一家不够那一家好的,她应该一早就跟我说好应该去那一家,不要说出两家医院给我,查完又说这一家不够好.大家说,如此幼稚园校医,我该怎么办啊?

回答:
才这么小你怕什么呢？你为什么就要带小孩去幼稚园老师说的那些医院？你们不会自己带他去认为好的儿童医院？真是的！你们就应该其中一个请假来带带自己的小孩，他很有可能是接触的小孩少了才这样，这个幼稚园不行，你可以换幼稚园，或自己先带一段时间，带他去玩，去跟认识的小孩玩，或不认识也行，小孩都叫的大声的，没什么，我认为责任在父母！所以你们现在就要赶补偿，他只要多多接触其它人就OK了！

回答:
作为同是母亲的我，就是查出来有问题，还是自己慢慢去引导，为什么不请假自己带一段时间？？孩子是大事．

回答:
至于医生嘛～都是这样的，我前天去医院做检查，就听到医生在说＂那家医院很差的啊＂你不要去理睬他们，当着耳边风就好．
我前两天在中央台,看了一个关于讨论＂狐独症＂的节目，那两个宝宝有两岁半了，不会讲话，妈妈爸爸也不会讲，但他的听力是正常的，看他们的爸妈知道他们有这个病后并没有抛弃他们，反而还更加的疼爱他们，实在让人感动．
狐独症表现为，平时会乱发脾气，还有喜欢转圈圈，喜欢玩旋转的东西，不顾危险，不爱与别人的眼光对视．
祝全家幸福！

回答:
我认为首先父母要抽时间多陪陪宝宝，跟宝宝多交流，参加各种社会活动，让宝宝多接触人，父母一定要耐心引导。如果没有长进就要去医院查一查，选择当然是比较权威的，比如儿童医院

Question:
me and my wife to go to work during the day, children from two months beginning with the grandmother, grandmother usually less likely to talk to him, because he often screams, and when not playing downstairs so that he and other children to play, fearing that he frightened people. to the two-year-old has also not talking, only called the “father” “mother” “in full “……, grandmother sent after a two-year-old kindergarten, the children want more contact with him, so hurry up and tell you more. more than a month has passed, there is not much change in the kindergarten school doctors received the “proposal”, she said that she passed normal for me to observe children and to me the so-called filled in the questionnaire, the child may feel that I had autism, it is recommended to the hospital to check, I gave the names of the two hospitals, said it was the hospital authority in this regard. We hear the doctor say very worried that the next day brought them to do an inspection, do the relevant blood \ ear \ brain waves, such as the examination, the doctor said there was no problem, opened the back to a pile of health care products, spent more than a thousand pieces. and then after a few days, the doctor asked me to check the No, I said that Richard had nothing, she asked me, you have gone home to check ah? I went to a hospital in the name of it, she asked, do you check what’s the matter? I said that I told the doctor the situation of children, and then I went to the doctor to check a lot, check the result: nothing! she said: ah! you that a ah, another good enough ah, you should go to another to see that psychological counseling, or you go look at another bar! me, that wonder, ah, two months before the child, but also not talking, how do psychological counseling ah? and what this family that a good e#p#分页标题#e#nough, she should have long ago told me that it should go a well, do not tell me two hospitals, said that after a check is not good enough. We said that such a kindergarten school doctors, ah how do I?

answer:
Was so small you afraid of? Why do you have to take their children to the kindergarten teacher said those hospitals? You will not bring their own good that he went to Children’s Hospital? It’s! One of you should leave to take with their own children, he is likely that fewer children come into contact with it this way, the kindergarten will not do, you can change the kindergarten, or first with their own for some time, take him to play, went to understand the children play, or do not know it also, the loud call of a child, no, I think the responsibility of their parents! So you now get compensation as long as his contact with other people a lot of OK!

answer:
As with the mother, I found out that there is a problem or to guide their own time, why not leave a certain period of time to bring their own? ? Children are important.

answer:
As for why doctors are so ~ I go to the hospital for check-ups the day before yesterday, we heard the doctor say “that poor hospital ah” Do not pay attention to them, like the presence of virtually turned a deaf ear. A couple of days ago I
in the central Taiwan, saw a discussion on “Fox independence” in the program, those two babies are two-year-old half, and not speech, my mother will not talk about my father, but his hearing is normal ways of looking at their parents know they have this illness does not abandon them, but they also love more of it moving. Fox
alone showed disease usually indiscriminate temper will also like转圈圈, things like playing rotation, despite the danger, do not love with someone else’s vision of as.
wish the family well-being!

answer:
I think the first thing parents have to take the time to spend time with your baby with the baby more exchanges, participation in various social activities, so that your baby more contact with people, their parents must be patient and guide. If there is no progress, we must go to the hospital to check, select the course is more authority, such as the Children’s Hospital